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A recent survey suggested a shockingly high proportion of women have been sexually assaulted by a partner as they slept. Now more and more are speaking out.

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Did you know going to bed at the same time as your partner is "biologically irrational"? That's according to sleep physician David Cunnington, who says our preferences for sleep timing whether we're early birds or night owls and sleep environment are largely genetically determined. But many of us like or would like to share a bedtime. It's a chance to recap the day and connect on an emotional and physical level. We asked those who crash at the same time and those who don't: what works for you and why? Then we put it to the experts.

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He stays up half the night and falls asleep on the couch more often than not. When I get up in the morning, I often end up waking him up and telling him to go to bed. This has strained our relationship so much! I miss my husband. I want to be intimate with him, but even more than that, I want to feel him next to me.

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I miss snuggling. I miss his warmth and his gentle presence. I cry myself to sleep a lot now, and any sleep I do get is fitful. He refuses to change or even compromise.

Why won’t my partner sleep with me?

As if I needed another reason to not be able to sleep! Submit Your Own Question to a Therapist. In addition to having a little one wreak havoc on your sleep, you have an absentee bed partner. You describe your situation as causing a great deal of distress. It sounds like the biggest source of distress is a lack of connection and intimacyon multiple levels.


From youryou have expressed your desires and concerns dont wake her sex game your husband, yet they have neither been validated nor led to change in where your husband spends his time at night. Talking about sensitive topics with a partner can be tricky for many reasons—among them the baggage that people bring to the communication. The explanation he has given is that he feels stressed and needs to unwind. Might there indeed be an affair of some sort? It sounds like whatever his struggles are, they are affecting him on many levels, including domestic life and his emotional and physical connection to his wife.

Even though communication is hard, it will be part of the long-term solution if you want to bring about change and break this pattern. Individual therapy can assist you with meeting these goals, as can couples therapy, if your husband is open to this. Individual therapy can assist you with meeting these goals, as can couples therapyif your husband is open to this.

Both approaches can facilitate communication and identify issues that may be contributing to the state of your relationship. Regardless of which approach es you try, it is important to try something. Other considerations are important to acknowledge. For one, transition periods in life are inherently stressful. Transitioning into parenthood and starting a new job can feel overwhelming, certainly.

We may not know how to deal with the stress. We may resort to coping styles that are familiar to us because it may feel comfortable or easy to react in a certain way. How has your husband typically coped with stress in the past?

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Some people tend to react to stress by withdrawing or disengaging. This can, of course, be hard for others who feel like they are shut out. Ultimately, how we deal with things now, whether it be big changes, new demands, or even disagreement about the importance of sharing a marital bed, affects things in the future. Another consideration worthy of acknowledging is how you are coping. Your sleep has deteriorated, which presumably leaves you feeling less rested during the day.

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Many nights of poor sleep, of course, can take their toll physically and emotionally. It can affect your energy and internal resources as a caregiver to your baby. You are caring for someone else, but what are you doing to care for yourself? It is easy to forget to take care of yourself when you are so concerned about the well-being of others. May this be a reminder about the importance of checking in with yourself and engaging in something restorative, energizing, or otherwise positive for yourself. Marni Amsellem, PhD. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. I thought my situation was bad.

You are not alone.

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I am sleeping alone for last 20 years. My husband saying same thing I am snoring He gets very miserable when we stay at hotel where only one bed.

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To Restless, to Ash: I am sorry you are having to go through what you go through. Some context: Pops was a Police Chief. I simply could not leave details off for their safety and the experiences that I witnessed when pops was active with those that had to be handcuffed and why.

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I am not making excuses for Police Officers; some live off excuses but the great great majority do not. Law Enforcement personnel face the ugliest a community goes through. I have not told my wife many of those, and I was a dispatcher, not face to face with the victims or the perps. Withdrawing is an easy coping mechanism.

You see that frequently among law enforcement and the military; I know, I lived through it. I am also a parent; truly, the husband is tossed aside and almost invisible to the mother-wife when arrives.

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That being said, following are some things that helped in my marriage, not solved completely but helped: Get time away from your children to be just with your spouse as the friend and partner your spouse married. Men a simple and do not see as deeply as women can. Sorry, but we do not perceive like women do. Those are just facts.

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Setting time as a wife-husband-partner-friend on a regular consistent basis [once per every 2 weeks or week or month as examples] do wonders to the husband who is truly stressed from work and from not being the center of attention as the husband once was, and no longer is. And two: Taking care of yourself also does wonders, from sleeping well [yeah, try that as a mother or father right?

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Men are overgrown kids who want to play and yes, even giggle. I do not know if you are aware of any of this but, I feel for you because there are times I have to sleep apart from my wife. Not frequently. My point: If he wants to correct the relationship, he will be willing if you set a time just for him, you projecting how comfortable and well you feel, and that you still want to play like when you both first met.

It may not be a cure but it is a starting point. I have seen too many loose relationships that were valuable and then not … only to discover they are still valuable [a tough sometimes not needed path to take]. I am sharing with you some of the things we, my spouse and I, have had to revisit. Good luck to the both of you.

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My best wishes. Gail, I am sorry to hear about your situation. I myself have had to take steps because my wife snores.

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Having sleep apnea myself does not help. I have to wear earplugs, foam, to the shape of my ear canal on each ear, because she snores loudly.

Being sleep deprive can kill someone. I know. It almost happened to me. I had to decide that if something unusual [like a tornado alarm or a weird noise in my house or an emergency phone call makes the phone ring] occurs, then my wife will have to wake me up. I cannot afford being sleep deprived.

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One day is not enough to check yourself. My wife goes one or two nights when she barely snores. The other 5 days: Lumberjack chainsaw time baby!!!! That is alright.